From Him, Not Them: A Young Woman's Guide to Relying on God for Validation, Identity, and Guidance is an Amazon bestseller that invites young women to break free from the exhausting cycle of people-pleasing and insecurity and step into the freedom of knowing who they are in Christ. Through real stories, thought-provoking questions, and bonus resources, this faith-filled guide gently leads readers back to the One who knows them best—offering a clear roadmap to lasting confidence, purpose, and peace.
Hi, I'm Tracy Harper!
If you're here, it's because you need a reset—with God, yourself, or the people around you. I get it. Life can be messy, confusing, and full of pressure to look to others for approval, direction, or even your sense of worth. But here’s the good news—you don’t have to live that way. You were made for more, and God Himself is ready to meet your deepest needs.
I’m Tracy, a Christian author, speaker, and Bible teacher who has spent over twenty years serving in cross-cultural ministry. I’ve lived on both sides of the U.S.—from the beaches of Hawaii to the East Coast of Maryland—but no matter where I’ve been, one thing has always been true: When we turn to Him instead of them, we find real freedom.
Let’s break free together.
Why You Don't Need Another Email in Your Inbox
You may be thinking, "I don't need one more email."
Me neither! Especially if you mean messaging for items you don't need.
What do you really need?
Sometimes, one month blurs into the next. You cannot remember the last time you had a significant conversation with God or read your Bible.
Would you like help regularly connecting with God?
My Tracy Harper Writes devotion will cause you to slow down, remember what's most important, and reignite your heart for God.
(Disclaimer! I will send you an email which serves as the delivery service for my monthly communication.) But it's so much more than an email!
My monthly devotion is your next
Breath
Breakthrough
Prayer
Prompt
Reflection
Revelation
You wouldn't start your day with a heavy meal, would you? So, no loooooong emails here!
But sip a cup of coffee. Settle in a comfortable chair. Breathe. Connect with God.
Still unsure? Head over to my Devotional page to browse previous devotions.
Mark the 1st on your calendar because I'm showing up to help you relate to God, self, and others properly.
Reset with God!
Sign up for my monthly devotion.
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I'm looking forward to connecting!
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