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Never watch the young woman you care about fall apart over a breakup, a comment, or a comparison again.

It’s hard seeing her in the mirror, not yet knowing the incredible young woman God made her to be. My book, from Him, not them, shows her that God’s steady love is more real and lasting than any quick boost from looking good, fitting in, or getting ahead. 

Her worth? It doesn’t come from things that can change but from knowing God made her, knows her, and loves her no matter what. She wakes up fully seen and deeply loved—finally free from chasing the attention she already has from God.

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Have you ever felt the pressure to be enough for everyone else—and come up short?

From Him, Not Them: A Young Woman's Guide to Relying on God for Validation, Identity, and Guidance
 was born out of years of campus ministry, late-night conversations, and my own struggle to stop measuring myself by others' opinions (or by my appearance or achievements, for that matter).

This book is for the young woman who's done striving, done comparing, and ready to ask:


What does God really think of me? And how much of my identity have I built on the opinions of others instead of Him? What would it look like to actually follow the Holy Spirit instead of my fears, feelings, or need to impress?

Inside, you'll find hope, truth, and a practical roadmap for letting go of counterfeit guides and following the Holy Spirit as your true source of worth and direction.

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